A Legacy Worth Leaving

LIFE & FAITH

A Legacy Worth Leaving

Written by Sarah Verno

7 February 2021

“The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago. The second best time to plant a tree is today.”

Red Rocks Church has been doing a series on Legacies, and as Shawn Johnson took the podium for this final weekend, he opened with this simple yet profound truth:

“If I’m going to leave a legacy I’m proud of someday, it’s got to start today.”

When we get to the end of our lives and look back at the legacies we’re leaving, one thing is for sure: we won’t be surprised by what we see.

Legacies don’t happen on accident. I can have the best intentions in the world, the biggest hopes and most audacious dreams, but those don’t make good legacies. Legacies require intentionality and consistency. In the end, our legacies are simply the sum of all our decisions. 

 

Good intentions don’t leave good legacies. It takes consistency. We have to start making choices that start pushing us toward the kind of person we want to be, the life we want to live, and the legacy want to leave.  

Pick up any self-help or business-focused book – any material on creating/keeping good habits, improving your wellbeing, or attaining goals  – and you’ll find consistent advice: start now, start small, and stick with it.

The best thing we can do for ourselves and for the people we will one day leave behind is to start today – start making better decisions, start prioritizing the important things, and start eliminating the noise. Our time is limited and it will come to an end – to ingore this truth only does us harm.

Aristotle is quoted for saying, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act, but a habit.” Then there’s Stephen Covey,  author of “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” who is chock-full of wisdom on the matter:

But until a person can say deeply and honestly, ‘I am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday,’ that person cannot say, ‘I choose otherwise.

– Stephen Covey

You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically, to say “no” to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger “yes” burning inside. The enemy of the “best” is often the “good.”

– Stephen Covey

Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not enough time on what is important.

– Stephen Covey

Start with the end in mind.

– Stephen Covey

But until a person can say deeply and honestly, “I am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday,” that person cannot say, “I choose otherwise.”

– Stephen Covey

I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.

– Stephen Covey

In 2020, the year of the pandemic, Red Rocks Church gave away $2.4M to other organizations throughout the world, including COVID-relief aid on a local level (helping fund food programs for students that relied on school meal plans, providing for healthcare workers and hosipitals to help take care of provider’s wellbeings, suppoorting small churches undergoing financial stress, etc.).

Just as crazy, the church took their usual “End of Year Offering” in which they ask people to consider how God has blessed their lives that year and give above and beyond what they planned, and the congregation exceeded $2M in additional donations. Wow! How?? Why would people give that much money through a church at the end of such an unstable, unsettling year?

The thing is, the church didn’t do that on accident – it took years of intentionality, planning, sacrifice, and practicing what they preached. It took consistently following a very specific plan to prioritize generosity, even through seasons when it didn’t make logical or financial sense.

I am so proud to be part of this incredible church family. It’s crazy good to have leaders that care enough about us to challenge us with how we live our lives. Our future legacies are dependent on our decisions today. It’s time we define the kind of people we want to be and start making choices that will intentionally help get us there.

“Legacy Starts Today”

Pastor Shawn Johnson, Red Rocks Church

The Right to Bleed

LIFE & FAITH

The Right to Bleed

Written by Sarah Verno

10 JUNE 2020

“Wherever there are hurting people, that’s where God’s heart is.” – T.D. Jakes

This time is different. I’m still processing all the reasons and ways George Floyd’s death has become the catalyst our nation needed – specifically, for white people like myself – to wake up and respond to the systemic problems that are crippling our country. It shouldn’t have taken this long. It shouldn’t still be this way. Yet, here we are again. 

What strikes me about this time, though, is we’re seeing an outpouring of emotions – compassion, grief, anger, embarrassment, humility, and desire toward action – from a large amount of white people on all sides of the political and socio-economic spectrums. We are seeing white pastors step up and ask hard questions of themselves and of their congregations. And in the center of many of these conversations has been the steady, sound voice of T.D. Jakes.

Bishop T.D. Jakes is the founder and Senior Pastor of The Potter’s House, a large non-denominational church based out of Dallas, TX. During this horrific time in America, he has created a safe space for white Christians and pastors to ask uncomfortable questions, express sadness and frustration, seek to better understand racism, and come together to actually do something about it.

“The church has had a very difficult history when it comes to racial issues for 100’s of years. We’ve been complicit. We’ve been participants. And now we’ve just been silent. And I don’t know which one is worse.” 

T.D. Jakes

In an effort to better understand my own white privilege and listen more attentively to the voices of black people in our country, I came across two video interviews with T.D. Jakes that really shed new light on racism and the Church’s role (for better and for worse). Below are the videos along with some key points that really stuck with me.

Interview 1

A Discussion on Racism | Carl Lentz & Bishop T.D. Jakes 

Interview 2

T.D. Jakes Presents: The Church & Race Ft. Leading Voices of the Church

Lessons I’m Learning Through These Conversations

Unity is not achieved through silence.

“By speaking, we legitimize the fact that people of color have a right to bleed.” 

T.D. Jakes

Ref: Interview 1

People (Black and white) need to See White People standing in solidarity with the black community.

“We need to see your outrage, your indignation, your frustration, and your tears. Because if you don’t get anything done at all but you just show us we matter, then you’ll kill our prejudices. And you will empower other white people like you to dare to speak.” 

T.D. Jakes

Ref: Interview 2

Speaking up and speaking out keeps the narrative from falling into abusive hands.

"Break the Silence" by @fuzzedupbear

“When reasonable people grow silent, unreasonable people takeover.”

T.D. Jakes

Ref: Interview 2

Racism strikes at the heart of who we are as Christians.

“To me, racisim is such a no-brainer offront to the Gospel that we shouldn’t be where we are. Our culture shouldn’t look like it looks… and if we can’t get this right, who are we kidding? What world are we going to reach?”

Carl Lentz, interview with T.D. Jakes

Ref: Interview 1

We don't have to be color blind to show people love and dignity

“God is not color blind. He made us intentionally the colors we are. He doesn’t need to look past our colors to love us, and we shouldn’t have to go blind to be love.”

T.D. Jakes

Ref: Interview 1

Your Love’s Too Good To Leave Me Here

LIFE & FAITH
Your Love’s Too Good to Leave Me Here
Written by Sarah Verno
5 APRIL 2020
“You love me as you find me.”
Watching Hillsong’s live version of this beautiful song, I think about how “as you find me” means something so different than it did two weeks ago. COVID-19 has changed everything. “As you find me” is now at home, not going to our workplaces, not shopping, not planning trips, not going to parties, not going to church, not sending kids to schools.

“I was found before I was lost…”

@annaelisabethsmith via Twenty20

Even as an introvert who is completely content sitting in silence by myself for days on end, there is something unsettling about this new norm. I watch a video like this one with thousands of people crammed in a venue singing their hearts out together, and I can’t help but wonder when the world will be ready and open to this again.

In many ways, I took worshipping in groups for granted. It’s not always (and for me, rarely) comfortable singing such intimate, personal words to my Savior in the midst of crowded rooms. (Mostly because I have a hard time focusing.)

Yet, there is something so undeniably powerful that happens when people come together and, with one voice, proclaim Truth over feelings and sing songs of hope in this chaotic, broken world.

Concerts were a significant part of my life and faith-journey through my adolescence. In many ways, music saved my soul because it connected me to the heart of Jesus, and kept pulling me back, grounding me. I remember so many life-changing moments I’ve had at concerts like this one where my heart was lifted out of the gutter and my feet were set back on solid ground.

So, what does it look like for us to worship together in isolation? I’m not sure, but I’m thankful to be part of a church that’s trying to figure it out, and for bands like Hillsong United for pointing us back to the source of our Hope.

“As You Find Me”

By Hillsong UNITED

I’ve been strong
And I’ve been broken within a moment
I’ve been faithful
And I’ve been reckless at every bend
I’ve held everything together
And watched it shatter
I’ve stood tall and I have crumbled
In the same breath
I have wrestled
And I have trembled toward surrender
Chased my heart adrift
And drifted home again
Plundered blessing
Till I’ve been desperate to find redemption
And every time I turn around
Lord You’re still there
I was found
Before I was lost
I was Yours
Before I was not
Grace to spare
For all my mistakes
And that part just wrecks me
And I know I don’t deserve this kind of love
Somehow this kind of love is who You are
It’s a grace I could never add up
To be somebody You still want
But somehow
You love me as You find me
Who am I
To think Your glory needs my praises
But if this borrowed breath is Yours Lord
Take it all
You are faithful and You are gracious
And I’m just grateful
To think You don’t need a single thing
And still You want my heart
I was found
Before I was lost
I was Yours
Before I was not
You wear the scars
For all my mistakes
And that part just wrecks me
Your love’s too good to leave me here
If You want my heart
I won’t second guess
‘Cause I need Your love
More than anything
I’m in
I’m Yours
Your love’s too good to leave me here
Your love’s too good to leave me